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EPIPHANY
I dated this guy for a little over a year, and he broke up with me a little over a year ago.
To be completely honest, I’m not over him and I probably never will be.
But today, I realized that if I have so much love for him still and he doesn’t want to be with me, then why don’t I put all that love to good use and love other people? I’m not saying I’m going to go out and find myself 405790210++ boyfriends, but I need to let go of him because the love I have for him isn’t getting expressed, just compressed.
There are so many other people in the world that are probably just as amazing, or maybe even more than he is. It’s just irrational to give all my love to just one person, when that one person could care less about it and I have so much love to go around!
Don’t get me wrong, I strongly believe you should be in a trusting, monogamous, faithful relationship, but why love just one person if there are so many people out there that need love too?
I should love as much as possible.
No one, nothing has ever triumphed my love of elephants.
Meet Ginny, Cheez, Jelly, Tanner, and Ele ♥
People always say you can’t find love as a teenager because you’re way too young, well all I have to say is you cannot define love and you don’t know how we feel.
I honestly think puppy love is the best kind of love. I mean, you get all those outbursts of emotions all at once.
Teenage relationships may be complicated and difficult, but if two people are so young and already feel as if they want to be together, then you have no right to say their love is not love.
When you’re older, you don’t feel that way anymore. You already know what people will put you through. You know that everyone will fuck you over. So it’s not much fun anymore. Learning is fun and there’s not much fun in already knowing, is there?
I think older people just say that because they’ve been through it all and their first love isn’t the one they’re married to. Well, there’s a slight chance that it may be, but it’s not very likely.
Love is whatever you make it to be, whether you’re young or old.